In midlife, I’ve had my share of  “I could have handled that better” moments. For years, I put others first, chasing expectations, achievements, and relationships that didn’t leave space for my own growth. I played the roles I thought I was supposed to play, while leaving my own evolution by the wayside.

 

From childhood, feeling small and insignificant, I stayed in the shadows, rarely voicing my opinions or desires. I preferred to blend into the background, it was safe that way.   I avoided the spotlight and was always content with the supporting role.  Deep down, though, I knew I was meant for more, but I didn’t know how to break free from this pattern. 

 

That is no longer my story.

 

Now, I embrace growth with open arms. "Things don't happen to us, they happen for us."  I welcome challenges as invitations to evolve, not threats to avoid.  I no longer shrink or hide, I show up.  I speak up. I say yes to opportunities that are out of my comfort zone.

 

Through my journey, I’ve created a more aligned, confident version of myself.  I believe in self-esteem, courage, and the belief that I deserve happiness, just as I am.  

 

My lens has shifted. Where I once saw limitations, I now see possibilities. And while I’m still evolving, I do so from a place of clarity, self-trust, and a deep desire to live and lead with purpose.

 

Yes, I still play a supporting role, but now it’s as a motivator and guide, helping others live consciously, authentically, and purposefully in their next chapter of life. 

 

It's been a journey of finding my voice.  Now, I'm here to help you discover your path, embrace your potential, and live your true life.